Allow clients to set a max age for connections #2693

Job	Run time
Performance Tests on swift:6.0-jammy	32s
Performance Tests on swift:5.10.1-noble	28s
Build and Test on swift:6.0-jammy	3m 1s
Build and Test on swift:5.10.1-noble	3m 16s
Integration Tests on swift:6.1	3m 17s
License Header and Formatting Checks	2m 2s
Build and Test on swift:6.1	3m 4s
Performance Tests on swift:6.1	31s
Integration Tests on swift:5.10.1-noble	3m 31s
Integration Tests on swift:6.0-jammy	3m 17s
	22m 59s

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